I taught onboard the USS Detroit, a fleet oiler between October 1994 and February 1995. The Detroit had a coed crew, and there are two statements I overheard on that ship that I'm sure I will always remember:
1. "Nah- that's not harassment- he's enjoying it too much."
2. "You know, that was a pretty good fight, once he started hitting her back."
The USS Detroit.